01/26/2024
My websites were hacked, and it is leading to a beautiful recreation, with more options, and more accessibility for those who might not be able to afford coaching packages.
Comment the emoji which one you would most be interested in (or order of preference if you prefer):
👍Self-led video tutorials
❤️Group coaching
🥰 Subscription service where I'd choose one question a week from all submissions to answer/assist with
09/21/2023
I don't normally drink from a can, but I did want an excuse to use this coozie to show my support for safe places for all.
I had a conversation with a friend earlier, and I want to speak to a couple of common concerns:
1) It should be the parent's responsibility/choice to talk to their children about this stuff
- Kids are going to talk about and experience this at school. Parents can have their own hang ups, beliefs, etc., that prevent them from having open discussions with their children. Many children don't know what to expect when they have their first period; many children don't know how to communicate boundaries, have body autonomy, or know that s*x is also about female pleasure. Many adults grow up not knowing how their own body works.
2) They are brainwashing our children/ confusing them
- Educating doesn't mean forcing a choice. It is much easier for kids to learn a non-biased perspective from someone who has no emotional attachments to what their gender identity or s*xuality may be.
3) It's dangerous.
- It's dangerous to be outed. A lot of parents will argue their love is unconditional.. A lot believe that to be true until their child comes out, and the hopes of grandchildren or 'normality' disappear - when people do gender reveals, they're already placing expectations on what that means. There's the danger of a child being misguided and making decisions about their own body - children do that every day through substance/liquor usage and eating disorders. It's where they try and find control in a situation they feel is outside of their control. What's also dangerous is being abused, getting kicked out and being homeless or being placed in the foster system. What's also dangerous is bullying, disempowerment, rejection, isolation, and su***de (which lgbtq individuals have the highest numbers. Those risks increase if black, indigenous, or a person of colour).
Continued in comments..
02/13/2023
It's backkkkk. International women's day, and the workshop that spearheaded my transition into relationship and confidence coaching!
This workshop was designed with women in mind (born or identify-as: you are ALL women), however it is inclusive and beneficial for any and all gender identies (men, this includes you too).
If you struggle with loving yourself, this workshop is for you!
Anyone who wants to show up, acknowledges and respects the safe space that it is, and acknowledges and respects the intention of the day, will be welcomed.
(If someone would like to attend and is weary about this, please private message me, and we can work something out.)
Tickets can be paid for at the door, however pre-sale prices are more cost-effective, so I know approximately how many workbooks I need to print out. If you know at least 24hrs+ in advance that you will be coming for sure and paying at the door, let me know, and we might be able to work something out.
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03/03/2022
When you look over your shoulder, are you looking back reflecting on what you've overcome, or are you looking back to see what's catching up to you?