The Proactive Parent Academy -TPPA

Some adults are still carrying childhood versions of themselves that only learned how to survive and never how to feel safe.

Healing is not about blaming the past for everything.
It’s about recognizing that some parts of you were shaped in survival mode — and learning that safety, rest, boundaries, trust, and softness are things you are allowed to experience now.

Sometimes the most important healing is teaching yourself that you no longer have to earn safety by overperforming, overgiving, or overprotecting yourself.

You are allowed to exist without constantly preparing for something bad to happen.

Make a deliberate decision to see the beauty around you today 💐

Selah..




Tessy Nkem Ikwueme- Ajibosin

This 👆👆 is a message every adult needs to reflect on and evaluate constantly. The hypocrisy and masking up the past that portrays everything is alright endangers you the more.

This is where parenting gets tougher. Unhealed people bleeding on the people that did not cut them, AKA your child.

One of the major challenge of parenting in today's world is the access a child has to gadgets. ( Phones, tabs, TV, etc. How can parents navigate this, not just for young children, but even for teenagers and young adults?

How were they prepared for the internet world? What is happening now in your home? If you do nothing, something will be done by the gadgets they have access to and the damage can cause a life scare.

When children spend time , especially excessively or, unregulated hours "glued" to screens, the impact goes far beyond just a missed afternoon of playing outside.

Because a child’s brain and body are developing at an incredibly rapid pace, chronic overexposure to digital media alters how they think, feel, sleep, and interact.

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Follow me if you're raising young children and home or will raise one in the future. I share proactive parenting strategies that empowers parents work ahead of situations.

As much as we want our children to grow and develop into hardworking adults who can handle tasks, remember that working smart is the real great deal. However, how do you work smart if the child is unskilled?

The world is moving fast to skill economy. Proactively prepare your child for Life.

Here are some tips on what you can do with salt.
Which of them did you know, which have you tried and verified to be true?

For me, No.3 saved me at a point where I didn't know whether to scream, yell or jump out of the kitchen as the pepper dealt with me 😄
I do No.5 always 👍

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USES OF SALT IN THE KITCHEN

1. To remove the odour from your hands after cutting onions, chicken or fish, just wash your hands with salt and water, then you will have no more smell.

2. To avoid the feeling of the hotness of pepper on your hands after cutting/slicing it with your hands, rub them with salt and vegetable oil or red oil and wash them.

3. When pepper mistakenly enter your eye, put a pinch of salt in your mouth, the hotness of the pepper will disappear and you will see the magic.

4. When storing empty containers or bottle, throw in a pinch of salt to help them from getting stinky.

5. Sprinkling some salt on your fresh peppers while pounding it, helps to make it pound quickly.

6. Soaking bitter leaves in salt and hot water, helps to remove extra bitterness before cooking with it.

7. If your liquid milk always spoil before you finish it, You can add pinch of salt when you first open it, it will help the milk to stay fresh longer.

8. Salt and detergent mixture can help you to kill ants and cockroaches disturbing you in the kitchen.

9. Placing your overripe tomatoes in a cold and salty water overnight, will help to make them fresh and firm.

10. If you cut lemon and you do not want to use it finish, sprinkle salt on it, it would stay fresh for 3 days. Make sure you rinse it before using it again.

11. Salt can be used as a preservative method for preserving meat, fish or vegetables. It helps to prevent bacteria growth.

12. Grease fires or small fire can be put out with the use of salt.

13. To store your fermented locust beans (ogiri, iru or dawadawa), mix it with salt and put it in a container. Your fermented locust beans will stay fresh for years without getting spoil.

14. When boiling eggs, add a pinch of salt to keep the shells from cracking and peeling the eggs will also be easy.

15. If you don't want your spaghetti to gum together while cooking, add a drop of vegetable oil into a salty boiling water and it will come out separately.

- Abimbola Opeyemi

Be proactive
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One goal I have consistently achieved each year in the past 4 years is being in a room that helps me dream without limitations and spur my growth.

Especially in MAY, since I usually have my first recollection of the year, on or before my birthday.

It either comes as a program, courses, conference, etc. but whatever way it comes, God uses it to transform me, give me clarity and direction.

Its been exactly two weeks today, precisely on the 4th of MAY, I joined the 365 days with pastor Sam Adeyemi , powered by success power and it's been nothing short of amazing. I have only word and name for that program 👉 SHIFT.

This programme is seriously creating a mental eruption and shift that is unexplainable.
I am greatful for the opportunity to be in that room and till the next 365 days.

I can wait for all that God has prepared for me as I prepare to step into a New year.

Thank you so much Sir for being a blessing 🙏🏻

We must Nuture boys to lead with respect, compassion, integrity and purpose.

Raise a boy to be confident, secure and comfortable in their own skin & to speak up assertively when the need arises.

A child who knows they're loved unconditionally becomes an adult who loves confidently.

Do what needs to be done, even when you don’t feel like it.