Celestina Okpara

Things are happening. May they rest in perfect peace

COPIED
SOME OF THE THINGS I DID DURING MY WAITING YEARS THAT HELPED ME STAY FOCUSED ON MY GOALS.

PART1️⃣

BLOCK WHO NEEDS TO BE BLOCKED: The reason why you think you are the only one having the problem you are facing now is because, you keep allowing yourself to see things you are not made to see and hear things you shouldn't hear.

You see that mother in-law that keeps blaming you for not having kids or the sister in-law that thinks the reason why you don't have kids is because you used your womb for âbôrtion "BLOCK THEM".

Also, those family and friends that think you are married for money that's why your marriage is not going to work " BLOCK THEM".

During my waiting years, I blocked all my uncles, aunties, nieces, nephews, relatives, community people, village people, etc. I blocked almost everyone who had any form of relationship with me except those that respected my privacy.

THE REASON I HAD TO BLOCK THEM:

First, I kept being asked questions that I had no answers to....asking why I have not traveled to be with my husband? When I explained to them that the Dubai visa was not easy to get approved, I get responses like, "It is a lie" because, their friends just traveled to Dubai few days ago 🤣🤣🤣 Making it feel like my husband was lÿíng to me.

To say this was a very big distraction. So, I woke up one morning and said to myself; COMFORT, you have to take that decision to block anyone who tried to make a mess of your mental health 😭😭.

So, I got a new sim card and gave the number to only those I felt I was comfortable with receiving their calls. It was a necessary action to take. Well, for those who kept calling on the previous number, I couldn't careless attending to their calls, regardless of the number of times they called me. Also, I made sure not to return their calls either. In that way, I was able to control what I see or hear. When family and friends asked me why they no longer see my post? I respond to them by reiterating that, we are already family and friends so, there won't be any need to extend that on social media.

Finally, when I receive calls from anyone telling me what someone had said about me, I block both the informant and the person who was mentioned to me; because they are all a distraction to me. I would recommend that, when faced with troubles from any family person or friends, just block them to protect your mental health and peace of mind.

"I LOVE YOU ALL"❤️ 😘

Can we sincerely stop watching newly married women's abdomen
Can we stop.this womb watching thing
Let people introduce and announce pregnancy by themselves

What If they are finding it difficult to conceive

What if they decided to wait for a while before trying for a baby

What if they want to enjoy their married life for a while before baby comes

What if they got pregnant and miscarried

She can't even say she feel.sick again without people insinuating pregnancy radarada

ᴀsᴋ ᴍᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ғɪʀsᴛ ǫᴜᴇsᴛɪᴏɴ ʏᴏᴜ sᴇᴇ !🦋

A ʙ ᴅ ᴋ ғ ᴅ ɴ ɪ ғ ʜ ᴍ ᴋ ɢ ᴛ ʜ ᴍ ᴏ ғ ɢ ᴀ ʀ ᴇ ʏ ᴏ ᴜ s ɪ ɴ ɢ ʟ ᴇ ʜ ʜ ᴋ ᴡ ʜ ᴏ ɪ s ʏ ᴏ ᴜ ʀ ᴄ ʀ ᴜ s ʜ ᴋ ʙ ʟ ᴛ ᴅ ʙ ᴋ ᴀ ʀ ᴋ ᴠ ғ ғ ᴀ ᴠ s ᴏ ɴ ɢ ᴋ ʙ ʟ ᴏ ᴋ ᴡ ɪ ʟ ʟ ʏ ᴏ ᴜ ʙ ᴇ ᴍ ʏ ʙ ᴇ s ᴛ ғ ʀ ɪ ᴇ ɴ ᴅ ʜ ᴏ ғ ɪ ᴋ ᴅ ᴏ ʏ ᴏ ᴜ s ᴍ ᴏ ᴋ ᴇ ɢ ɴ ɪ ᴅ ᴏ ʏ ᴏ ᴜ ᴡ ᴀ ɴ ɴ ᴀ ʜ ᴀ ɴ ɢ ᴏ ᴜ ᴛ ᴋ ʟ ғ ᴊ ᴡ ɪ ʟ ʟ ʏ ᴏ ᴜ ᴅ ᴀ ᴛ ᴇ ᴍ ᴇ ᴊ ᴋ ᴇ ʟ s ᴛ ʏ ᴡ ʜ ᴀ ᴛ s ʏ ᴏ ᴜ ʀ ʙ ɪ ɢ ɢ ᴇ s ᴛ ғ ᴇ ᴀ ʀ ᴊ ʜ ᴋ ʟ ᴡ ᴏ ᴜ ʟ ᴅ ʏ ᴏ ᴜ ᴅ ᴀ ᴛ ᴇ ᴍ ᴇ ᴋ ᴅ ᴜ ɢ ғ ᴅ ʏ ɢ ᴏ ᴡ ɪ ʟ ʟ ʏ ᴏ ᴜ ᴅ ᴀ ᴛ ᴇ ᴍᴇ ᴋ ᴇ ʏ ɪ ᴋ ᴋ ᴅ ᴛ ᴏ ᴄ ᴀ ɴ ᴡ ᴇ ʙ ᴇ ғ ʀ ɪ ᴇ ɴ ᴅ s ɢ I ᴏ ᴅ ʀ ᴀ ᴡ ʜ ᴏ ɪ s ᴜ ʀ ʙ ᴇ s ᴛ ɪ ᴇ ʙ ɪ ʏ ᴘ s

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I don't know who needs to hear this, but Isaiah 60:22 says, "when time is right I the Lord will make it happen". And Ecclesiastes 3 vs 11 says He makes everything beautiful in its time
So my advice don't give up🙏❤️ bless my day with a follow🤲🏽 it could means alot thanks
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"Uncle please it's paining me" bamidele screamed in agony as my dad kept thrusting in and out of her

I laid on the bed and watched my dad r**e our house help who was just 11 years old, I was 12 months old, there was nothing a baby like me could do to help

She cried, screamed and even tried to push my dad away buh he overpowered her and despite seeing her in much anguish and pain he didn't stop until he was satisfied

"If you tell anybody pim I will send you back to the village" my dad threatened with his face more menacing than a raging bull

"Yes...Yes ..un..un.cle I won't" replied bamidele shivering in fear and exhaustion

The village was one place bamidele feared the most cause she once lived there with her parents before they were kīlled right in front of her by terrorists....

"Oya go and take your bath and complete your chores before my wife comes back" my dad roared, bamidele wasted no time in doing as she was told

She did all her chores as fast as she could buh my mom came home before she could finish

My mom didn't hesitate to beat the daylight out of bamidele injuring her in the process

Despite being r**ed and abused several times by my parents bamidele never for once treated me bad infact I was her best friend

Sometimes she would carry me in her arms and begin to tell me about how bad my parents were treating her, she usually cried whenever she does this and not knowing what to do I would use my hands to wipe her tears just the way she wipes mine whenever I'm crying

Bamidele endured torture hoping that someday she would be free from it buh sadly things don't always go the way we hope they would

On the 24th of December while I was been breast fed by my mother, bamidele ran into the house crying that she needs help, that she was bitten by a snake while weeding the grasses in the compound
"I have a meeting to attend now, take care of Dera when I come back I will check the wound" my mum replied ,as usual bamidele did as she was told
My mom left

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Relax you don’t have this on your keyboard 🥜🥜🥜🥜🥜🥜🥜🥜 Show us groundnut 🥜🥜🥜🥜🥜don’t stress ur self

Ecclesiastes 9:11
I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happened to them all....
Shalom

Sure

Which of these is ur phobia