MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK! !!!!!!
I used to interpret the saying "Marriage is not for small boys" to mean small boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years.
I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?
Beaming, she retorted; My son, the expectations you bring into marriage will either spell its doom or success. I married my husband without expectations of enjoying his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that.
You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she pushes the spirit of her husband from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house uncomfortable.
So, I married without high expectations from my husband but simply to make him happy always.
Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed. I bath the kids, do devotions with them, prepare breakfast for my husband and boil hot water for him to bath. I iron his clothes he would take to work, kiss him and wish him the best in his daily endeavours.
I asked my old woman, so then what does the man do in return? She laughed all heart and hearty and replied; You see, this is the mistake you young ones make in marriage.
YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE AND EXPECT SAME REWARD FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG!
When it becomes your attitude to only please your husband or wife always, the other person responds naturally. Indeed, if nothing touches the palm tree, it doesn't rattle.
She continued, my son, never carry "how rich or poor your family is" into marriage. After all, you knew very well the status of your family and decided to marry that man or woman.
Love only compels/leads would-be couples into marriage but it doesn't sustain marriage. Rather, understanding, patience, communication and most importantly, forgiveness sustain every marriage. High expectations are the symptoms of divorce in marriages.
Sometimes you hear, I want to marry a mother, a business partner, God fearing person etc. You cannot get all your expectations in one person. With time and depending on your relationship, you may get some. So minimise your expectations in marriage.
To cut the long story short, as too many cooks spoil the broth, she concluded on the mistakes a couple should resist at all cost in marriage:
1) Never say you have made your wife or husband somebody from a nobody. It hurts. God only used you as an agent for transformation, give the glory to God.
2) Let the man be head of the home no matter the financial, economic,
physical and emotional health situation prevailing in the couple's life whilst the woman exercises diligence in the use of the tongue.
3) Having children should not be the ultimate objective in marriage. They are given to enhance your marriage. When God delays in giving you a child, have every reason to live a happy marital life.
4) S*x is a major morale booster after a hard day's stressful life. Try to be sexual beings and not "Angels" in that marriage
5) Resort to God often and less to men to solve your marital disputes.
6) Let the women " Make up" their characters much more than they make up their body.
Indeed, marriage is not for small boys because small boys struggle to forgive, demand everything speedily, lack the patience to wait, have so many friends etc.
Make every effort to let that marriage work and may God help us
Success Nursary and Primary School, P.o.Box 21097,kampala Uganda
It Was Opened By Late Mr. Muledu Fred In 2002 Aiming At Providing Affordable Education For Success And For All Nations In The World
*Tomatoes !!!*
🍅A teacher asked her students to bring some tomatoes in a plastic bag to school.
🍅Each tomato was to be given the name of a person whom that child hates.
🍅So, the number of tomatoes would be equal to the number of persons they hate.
🍅On a pre-determined day, All the children brought their tomatoes well addressed.
🍅Some had two, some had three and some had five, some even had 20 tomatoes in accordance with the number of people they hated.
🍅The teacher then told them they had to carry the tomatoes with them everywhere they go for two weeks.
🍅As the days passed the children started to complain about the decay and smell of the tomatoes.
🍅The students who had many tomatoes complained it was very heavy to carry and the smell was too much.
🍅After a week, the teacher asked the students “How did you feel this week?”
🍅The children complained of the awful smell and heavy weight of the tomatoes, especially those who carried several tomatoes.
🍅The teacher said, “This is very similar to what you carry in your heart when you don’t like some people.
🍅Hatred makes the heart unhealthy and you carry that hatred everywhere.
🍅 *If you can’t bear the smell of spoilt tomatoes for a week, imagine the impact of bitterness on your heart as you carry it daily.”*
🍅The heart is a beautiful garden that needs regular cleaning of unwanted weeds.
🍅 Forgive those who have angered you.
🍅This makes room for storing good things.
🍅 *Get Better, Not Bitter!!!*
06/05/2017
We would like to say good evening to every body out there in either cool,hot or warm atmosphere.
This is to inform all our estime customers who are overseas and the donot know the where the school is located that our school is easily accessed by any body by followong our address below.
COUNTRY: Uganda
AIRPORT: Entebbe
DISTRICT: Kampala
COUNTY: kyadondo
SUB COUNTY/DIVISION: Rubaga
PARISH: Lubya
VILLAGE/ZONE:Mapeera
We are in the middle of Mapeera Catholic church Nabulagala parish and Lugala zone.
We appologise for the delay of the direction but we exten our thankfull gratitude to all of you.Better late than Never
One day a woman wanted to know how the
husband would react if she left without telling him
where she had gone.
So she decided to write him a letter saying she is
tired of him and didn't want to live with him
anymore and after writing she
put the letter on the table in the bedroom and then
hid under the bed...
When the husband came back home, saw the letter
and read it, he replied on the same paper and then
began to sing and dance changing his clothes.
He got his phone, dialed someone then said:
"Hey babe, am just changing clothes then will join
you, as for the other fool it has finally dawned on
her that I was fooling around with her and has left.
I was wrong..really wrong to have married her, I
wish I had known you earlier. See you soon honey!"
The husband walked out of the room and left.
In tears and very upset, the woman got up from
under the bed and decided to go and read what the
husband wrote on the letter.
When she got the letter, it said: "I COULD see your
feet under the bed, I didn't make any phone call.. I
am going to buy bread.
Stand up, stop your silly games and
prepare me a meal.... I LOVE YOU!
Don't laugh.
Dear our loving parents,ganiants and well wishers keep your love inoder to maintain respect in our children. Have happy week with your child or children as they come back on friday to pick their report cards
21/04/2017
we would like to thank Tr Bosco and Tr Anthony for instilling spiriual value into our children may the almight God bless you.they are people who alway teach our child that God is the first and your future will be blessed. those are some of our children during prayers yesterday on thursday.
Let's Look at all theDifferent Breeds of Goats...The goat, along with sheep, were among the earliest domesticated animals. Goat remains have been found at archaeological sites in western Asia, such as Jericho, Choga, Mami, Djeitun and Cayonu, which allows domestication of the goats to be dated at between 6000 and 7000 B.C. However, unlike sheep, their ancestry is fairly clear. The major contributor of modern goats is the Bezoar goat which is distributed from the mountains of Asia Minor across the Middle East toSind.1The six traditional breeds of goats are Nubian, Alpine, Saanen, Toggenburg, LaMancha, and Oberhasli. Other breeds which are growing in popularity include Pygmy,Boer, Cashmere, and Angora. Almost all goats are born with horns,but most goats (except for Pygmies) are dehorned at a young age to protect both the goat and humans.The Six Primary Breeds:NubianThis is the most popular breed. This breed is large, has long, wide, pendulous ears, and a roman nose. Goats of this breed usually are brown, but can be almost any color. The Nubian breed originated in the United Kingdom from British and Near-East descendants. Nubians have a high butterfat content in theirmilk. Nubian milk is therefore good for cheese making.AlpinesAlpines originated in Switzerland. They were later imported to France and England, and then to the United States. Most Alpines are either blackand white, brown and white, but can have various other color patterns. This breed has dished, or curved, noses, and upright ears.SaanensSaanens are another Swiss breed. These goats are large, kind, and friendly. This breed of goats is generally all-white, with forward-facing ears.ToggenburgsToggs are medium-sized chocolate animals who also originated in Switzerland's Toggenburg Valley.La ManchaThis breed was developed in the United States of a Spanish breed that was crossbred with other breeds. This breed is distinguished by having very short ears.OberhasliOberhasli,another Swiss breed, is colored Chamoisee, ranging from light to a deep red bay with black facial stripes, muzzle and forehead. Oberhaslis can also be black in color.Other Breeds Include:The Pygmy Goatwas originally called the Cameroon Dwarf Goat. The goat is mostly restricted to the West African countries. Similar forms of Pygmy goats also occur in all ofnorthern Africa, in the south westernAfrican countries, and also in east Africa. The breed originated in the former French Cameroon area. The Cameroon goats were exported from Africa to zoos in Sweden and Germany where they were on display as exotic animals. The first Pygmys probably arrived in the United States in 1959 from Sweden. Pygmy goats are primarily kept as pets as they do not produce milk of any significant quantity.The Boer Goatwas developed in South Africa as a breed meant solely for meat production. The Boergoat is considered far superior to any other goat for meat.Cashmereproduction is a new industry for the UnitedStates. The first Cashmere goats were imported from Australia and New Zealand in the late 1980's. Since thenseveral Cashmere breeders and growers have been producing breeding stock to launch this new industry in the US. They are sheared once a year and a full grown adult buck will yield as much as 2.5 pounds of fleece. The fleece consists of two kinds of fiber, cashmere and guard hair.Angora:The most valuable characteristic of the Angora as compared to other goats is the valueof the mohair that is clipped. The average goat in the U.S. shears approximately 5.3 pounds of mohairper shearing and are usually sheared twice a year. The mohair is very similar to wool in chemical composition but differs from wool inthat it is has a much smoother surface and very thin, smooth scale.Consequently, mohair lacks the felting properties of wool. Mohair is very similar to coarse wool in the size of fiber. Mohair has been considered very valuable as an upholstering material for the makingof plushes and other covering materials where strength, beauty, and durability are desir
26/11/2016
PART OF THE CANDIDATES 2016 It has been a nice moment to be with you but the bible says there is time for every thing.their is a time you started in baby class with us up
Good morning dear friends we wish you a nice day
where did judus iscariot commit su***de and on which tree? lets learn
23/03/2016
oh my God it's true that things come and go if I have to make a flash back into my pupils of those years you will find that they are now big people. if you knew any body from this photo comment with a name
The Office Of Our Headteacher Would Like To Extend Our Gratitude Sincere Sorrow To The Relatives, Parents And Our Little P.1 Boy Mugabo Who Lost His Father In A Road Traffic Accident At Around Ten And Later Passed On At Midnight . We Humbly Share With The Tears Of Sorrows And We Pray To Our Lord Jesus To Grant You Peace,humony And Unity. May The Soul Of Our Dear Parent Rest In Peace.
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