Alignment by Design Studio

Sometimes we get caught up in the minutia of life. We put dreams on the back burner. When we do this, its just not our dreams on the back burner, IT TRULY IS US!! Why put yourself behind everything else?

Wanna know how to get the hell out of the mosh pit? The answer is so SIMPLE!!

Set your mindset on YOURSELF!! Self Care includes SELF LOVE. Embrace true self, YOUR SOUL SELF.

So climb that mountain instead of trying to move it!! Hit that target 🎯

If you feel stuck or like your life is a whirlwind and you feel that you have no control ask yourself:

1. Are you clear on what you want?

2. Are you clear on the EXACT steps to take to get you where you want to go?

3. Have you actually written down EXACTLY What you want?

Let me know what your thoughts about yourself by answering these powerful questions!!!

Do you want to know more about how to make these things happen? I can help!

TO SCHEDULE A FREE CLARITY CALL MESSAGE ME!!! I CAN HELP YOU TODAY!!

Why be LIMITED when you can be LIMITLESS!!!!!

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I am going on a Quest..33 different things! Thanks . Who wants to join me?? Let's break those barriers together ❤️

I am starting a quest!! You heard me..a QUEST not a Request! Thanks Tyler Wise
Stay tuned. It's one each day for 30 days.

What are you making possible this week?

Did you know neurodivergent people walk in a different frequency than mundane people? That makes life so much more challenging for us. I mean think about it. Our bodies are made up of over a 1000 different cell structures that harmonize frequency with each other. Mundanes frequencies are lower and slower than neurodivergent peeps. The higher the frequency the faster the cells have to work to harmonize. Neuro people find life more challenging than mundanes. Our vibe is faster, more vibrant thus our thought process never shuts down.

Today was super challenging for me. As I sit here thinking "You know not to retreat but you did it anyway" And my payment for that was not thinking where my feet were going and I tripped and fell once again. Remembering to always be in the present is hard for me. (I seriously could be a hag on the side of a mountain living in my hag hut)

But knowing he was there for me, if only I would let him in more. We met three months ago and it has changed my vibe, my sparkle and my glimmer. Thanks Joe🥰

So for everyone that had challenging day and or week...this one's for you.

No matter where you are you can always feel the energy around you. You can call on this energy anytime. It's light, it ✨️ heals, it sends enlightenment and answers and it's LOVE ❤️

MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH MONTH
YOU

When the pain changes shape.
At first, it was confusion. You replayed everything. You questioned yourself. You tried to understand what happened, why it happened, and whether there was some version of the story that would make it hurt less.

But then clarity arrived.
You saw the pattern. You saw the denial. You saw who benefited from your silence, who protected the version of events that kept them comfortable, and who was never going to meet you in truth.

And still, something kept hurting.

That is the part people misunderstand.

It is not always closure you are waiting for. It is not always the apology. It is not even always the relationship.

Sometimes what still aches is much deeper than that. It is the fact that something profoundly unfair happened and the world did not correct itself.

No one came back and named it properly. No one restored the moral order. No one said, “This was wrong. This should not have happened to you. You should not have had to carry this alone.”

That absence does something to a person.
It creates a very specific kind of exhaustion. Not confusion. Not longing. A deeper fatigue that comes from carrying truth without shared recognition. From knowing exactly what happened while living in a world that keeps rewarding denial, politeness, image management, and convenient forgetting.

That is why even being “right” can feel empty.
Because the psyche does not only want explanation. It wants restoration. It wants reality to be acknowledged in a way that makes the nervous system feel the world is still governed by some kind of order, some kind of fairness, some kind of meaning.

When that does not happen, the hurt stays open in a different way.
Not because you are obsessive. Not because you are bitter. Because some part of you is still grieving the fact that harm was done and then left unrepaired.

That is not weakness. That is moral injury.
It is the wound that forms when what was true is denied, what was harmful is minimised, and what mattered is never given the weight it deserved.

This is why “just let it go” never lands. Because letting go can feel like letting the lie win. Like letting the people who caused the damage also decide what counted as real.
But healing does not have to mean pretending justice no longer matters.

Sometimes healing is much quieter than that.

Sometimes it is the moment you stop waiting for the people, families, or systems invested in silence to become the source of your restoration. Sometimes it is the moment you stop handing them the role of moral authority over your reality.

You begin to build something steadier inside yourself.
You decide that truth does not become less true because it was denied. You decide that harm does not become smaller because it was never acknowledged. You decide that your nervous system does not have to stay chained to their refusal forever.

That is not forgiveness. It is not approval. It is not pretending.

It is the beginning of ethical independence.

The moment you stop asking the world to correct itself before you allow yourself to live.

And that is why this grief deserves dignity.

Because it was never about being unable to move on. It was about carrying the painful knowledge that what happened should have been made right, and wasn’t.

That is a real loss.

And when you finally name it for what it is, something shifts.

Not because justice arrived the way it should have.

But because their refusal is no longer the final authority over your inner world.

That is not closure.

That is truth becoming solid enough inside you that it no longer needs their permission to exist.

PARENT ALIENATION IS REAL AND IT HURTS

Trust the timing. Trust the process. Trust that what is for you will never miss you.

"Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength"

This is a quote my son wrote years ago. He was only 20ys old when he wrote this. He shared it as a memory.He has always been wise and very mindful despite whatever life threw in his path.

As a Spiritual Alignment into Business Coach I specializes in guiding visionary women to become confident, fulfilled, feminine leaders in their Soul-aligned business through radical self-love, emotional mastery, and magnetic business strategy.

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So my bestie of 22 plus years and I are done. You could say once again. For reasons I will not put post here.

But since I have always felt her energy to the max, like knowing her physical, emotional and mental pain. So I had a wonderful day today that was quite productive, I decided to do a Severance spell. This spells intention was to severe any and all connections we had.

During the unbinding of knots this Crystal broke in four places. The line of love, friendship, dependency and emotional bonding is severed. 4 things 4 breaks.

She has not broken me but rather freed me❤️