Charlotte Moore - Neurofocused Solutions

Your impact will last far longer and change far more lives than your title ever will.
Stay focused on how you want to impact those around you.
🧠💪

Quick question, how different would you behave towards your animal (dog, cat, horse, cow, bird, etc) if when they felt unsafe and sad, tears fell from their eyes?

If life just isn't working for you in the way you want it to and you want to learn how to change it, I can help you!

From trauma to productivity problems, relationship breakdown to building conflict communication skills, I can help you.

Distance a concern? not a problem. I have clients all over the world.
Solution: online consultations (with the bonus of recording them if you choose).

Reliving the trauma a concern? Not a problem. I help people overcome their trauma everyday without needing to share the experience again.
Solution: Learn the skills to rewire your brain instead of reinforcing the current wiring.

Workplace challenges a concern? Not a problem.
I help people everyday to build strong sustainable teamwork mentalities, how to increase their productivity, prevent burnout, increase motivation and joy and build relationships.
Solution: understand how your beautiful brain operates under pressure, how to enhance it under pressure and enjoy it.

Self-confidence and boundaries a concern? Not a problem. I help people everyday learn how to find, implement and confidently sustain their "yes's" and "no's".
Solution: Learn how to listen to yourself, trust yourself, and communicate with yourself and others in a way that promotes safety and confidence.

Whatever you have going on, don't do it alone!

Give it a go to see if it works for you. What have you got to lose?
If it doesn't work for you, you get to opt out at any point 😉

Get in touch with me for a chat, text or email to see if what NFS offers can help you.

Happy brain training 🧠 💪

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐫𝐞
Stress Neurobiology Consultant & Translational Neuroscientist

"Understand your brain, behaviour and communication with neuroscience"
~ Charlotte Moore

✅️ Please feel free to contact me via private message, whatsapp, phone call, or email to ask any questions or discuss how I can help you.

🌐 𝐰𝐰𝐰.𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦.𝐚𝐮
📧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞@𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦
📞 𝟎𝟒𝟎𝟕𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟓𝟎𝟒

Just in case you need to hear this today and no one notices what is happening inside you...

You really are amazing!

You are worthy.
You are valuable.
You are lovable.
You are special.

Remember that even when they don't notice, or they're too busy, or they're too distracted, you still matter and you still count.

Can you tell yourself today and everyday for 14 days for me?

Can you say out loud for 14 days:
"I count and I matter"

You are the best person for the job.
If I was standing next to you, I would look at you and smile and say it to you.

Shine today my friend!

You got this!

Thank you for being you 🩷

Our brains are not designed for continuous high engagement/concentration stimulus like we have today.

Our phones 📱
They're a brilliant asset to have AND they're also incredibly damaging to our nervous system.

● The lack of instant gratification control
● The constant urge to feel externally validated
● The hyperfocused arousal
● The hypervigilance
● The sensory overload

They all come from a brain that is demanding "we need more cortisol to manage this concentration level".

Once the cortisol is elevated, it then starts shaping the brain's pathways based on the rehearsal of behaviours.

Example:
Everytime I sit on my phone, especially in high stimulus places, my brain filters what sensory information I become conscious of. I don't need to pay attention to the body language around me or the safety factors, I need to read that post and respond to it.
I need to buy that thing NOW.
I need to reply to that email immediately.
With every repetition of this behaviour, the part of my brain that manages empathy, reasoning, emotional regulation, risk, critical thinking starts to get neurally pruned. Nerve cells disconnect, shrivel and can even die. Over time it shrinks on a larger scale.

Now what I'm left with is a brain that behaves like:
• intolerant to change
• minimal attention span with things that I don't find interesting
• difficulty connecting with people on a deeper level and not feeling a sense of belonging
• tendency to hyperfocus on things I practice and enjoy
• struggle with emotional regulation
• loss of reasoning ability
• difficulty staying on task or finishing it
• procrastination with challenging tasks

Here's the thing, that part of my brain is not being damaged from the conventional "underusage". Yes, it is being underused, but because it's being signalled to do so by cortisol.

When cortisol demand is too high for too long (as it often is with social media and phones because of the concentration it requires), the part of the brain that helps us connect deeply, contribute in a meaningful, mindful way goes offline to protect it from neurotoxicity.
It's doing its job perfectly biologically. We're just not doing a very good job at listening to it and unconsciously falling to "easy" fixes of this world's demands and expectations.

When we repeat this behaviour, it means that what we don’t use, we lose.
Remember this and try working on boundaries around your concentration/arousal levels.

IT'S OK TO TURN THE DIAL DOWN AT LEAST ONCE THROUGHOUT THE DAY!

Protect your brainsicle!

♡ Be mindful of not staying on high concentration for too long.
♡ Take regular breaks
♡ Find grounding ways to reconnect more deeply, the way we're designed to, through smiles, talking, laughing, touching, hugs, movement, animals and nature.

Happy brain training 🧠 💪

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐫𝐞
Stress Neurobiology Consultant & Translational Neuroscientist

"Understand your brain, behaviour and communication with neuroscience"
~ Charlotte Moore

✅️ Please feel free to contact me via private message, whatsapp, phone call, or email to ask any questions or discuss how I can help you.

🌐 𝐰𝐰𝐰.𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦.𝐚𝐮
📧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞@𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦
📞 𝟎𝟒𝟎𝟕𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟓𝟎𝟒

⚠️ Expressing yourself DOES NOT automatically equal being heard and seen, especially when you command it.

🧠 You need both to feel heard and seen to feel validated, not just one or the other.

For someone to hear you, you must appear "safe enough" to the listener. This is dependent on emotional alignment and delivery.

💬 The person you express yourself to, may very well feel just as unsafe in their own skin as much as what you do, and that may be the emotional alignment needed to feel heard and seen.

🩷 If you are seeking external validation, look carefully and ASK for it from someone who is compatible and capable, don't command it.

Happy brain training 🧠 💪

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐫𝐞
Stress Neurobiology Consultant & Translational Neuroscientist

"Understand your brain, behaviour and communication with neuroscience"
~ Charlotte Moore

✅️ Please feel free to contact me via private message, whatsapp, phone call, or email to ask any questions or discuss how I can help you.

🌐 𝐰𝐰𝐰.𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦.𝐚𝐮
📧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞@𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦
📞 𝟎𝟒𝟎𝟕𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟓𝟎𝟒

Fading effort and dismissing the impact of small moments is what breaks relationships down.

Put effort in to your micromoments of thoughtfulness.

Start reconnecting the way mother nature intended us to, with a smile and eye contact.

There's your micromoment.

Happy brain training 🧠 💪

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐫𝐞
Stress Neurobiology Consultant & Translational Neuroscientist

"Understand your brain, behaviour and communication with neuroscience"
~ Charlotte Moore

✅️ Please feel free to contact me via private message, whatsapp, phone call, or email to ask any questions or discuss how I can help you.

🌐 𝐰𝐰𝐰.𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦.𝐚𝐮
📧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞@𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦
📞 𝟎𝟒𝟎𝟕𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟓𝟎𝟒

When we're not out and about training brains, we restore our brain fuel 🥰

Herx after a long day of regulating himself and helping our clients do the same.
What an absolute superstar this boy is at teaching the principle of:

"I will help you carry your bags WITH you, but I will NOT carry your bags FOR you."

🚫 He doesn't let anyone dump their nervous system energy on to him, he CHOOSES to calmly and politely opt out.

He moves in to people that connect with their nervous system and willingly offers his regulated nervous system to co-regulate theirs by sharing space, not touching.

Without saying a word, he shows this person how hearing your internal signals is the way to regulation and self care.
He also shows people that there's more power in observing your feelings than analysing them.

He doesn't care why someone has an emotion, he just cares what emotion it is, then he decides what action to take according to what they do in response to their emotion.

🤯🤯

If we humans took a leaf out of Herx's K9 brain book and applied the same boundaries and respect for our own nervous systems, the world sure would be a more balanced and joyful place.

Herx reinforces that feeling the feeling is ok. Displacing a feeling onto someone else is not.

Learn from Herx, if someone displaces their emotional dysregulation onto you, simply opt out until they learn to control their emotions and own them, then opt it and share the space of co-regulated safety.

You're not anyone's punching bag or door mat.
You don’t need to carry bags for anyone who's not willing to carry their own bags - that's called rescuing and leads to co-dependence.
You get to opt out!
Sure, help them when they're showing that they're trying to carry their own bags, but don't do it FOR them, only do it WITH them.

Keep it that simple to enjoy a drama free life 👍

Thanks Herx 🐾🐾

Happy brain training 🧠 💪

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐫𝐞
Stress Neurobiology Consultant & Translational Neuroscientist

"Understand your brain, behaviour and communication with neuroscience"
~ Charlotte Moore

✅️ Please feel free to contact me via private message, whatsapp, phone call, or email to ask any questions or discuss how I can help you.

🌐 𝐰𝐰𝐰.𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦.𝐚𝐮
📧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞@𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦
📞 𝟎𝟒𝟎𝟕𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟓𝟎𝟒

The 4 D's of destruction
• Dissection
• Displacement
• Distraction
• Disassociation

All coping mechanisms that a brain commonly uses for a nervous system that has detected "unsafe" and doesn't have a corresponding helpful roadmap.

Let's be honest, it's s**t scary touching base with emotions when we don’t have the roadmap to do it safely.

Remember the nervous system doesn’t detect "unsafe" with just physical threat. It detects "unsafe" with cognitive and social threat, throws it into the same bowl and makes a good egg pie with it.
It doesn't discriminate.
Threat is threat.
Threat detection = "unsafe"!

It just so happens that your threat detection centre is located in the depths of your unconscious brain to help you "just do it" to survive, not reason with how to best do it.

This is great when the threat is bloomin' intense, not so crash hot when the threat is a little ni**le in the pit of your stomach.

Hence the 4 D's of destruction...they're automatic, easy, cheap and accessible.

What have you learned to do over the years in response to your nervous system detecting threat?

• Dissect --> putting the focus on analysing it "I need to understand it".

• Displace --> Putting the emotion on something or someone to make it easier to deal with "It's your fault I feel angry" - hitting, bullying, projecting, blaming.

• Distract --> doing something that helps you shift your focus away from the feeling - extra work, misguided relationships, extreme hobbies, excessive socialisation, hyper-studying, unnecessary shopping, etc.

• Disassociate --> doing or thinking something that completely detaches you from the emotion all together.

These are the most common forms of "coping" mechanisms people utilise to help shift their nervous systems from feeling unsafe --> safe.

They often involve a tangible action and outcome.

But lurking in the shadows is the same signals that were there to begin with, trying to communicate with you like an extreme introvert in the back of the room that has something to tell you but knows they won't be heard.

These coping mechanisms are band aids, they don't restore safety!
They are temporary holding patterns designed to help you "cope" until you get to higher grounds where you can check what wounds are really there.

Try this instead:

👂LISTEN to your nervous system.
👂Listen to the emotional signals as they communicate to you ONE BY ONE.
📢 Let your nervous system feel heard as it signals to you "angry", "frustrated", "worried", "anxious".
🧐 STOP trying to analyse why, just listen!

Most of the time, when the nervous system feels heard, it automatically resolves the noise.

Happy brain training 🧠 💪

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐫𝐞
Stress Neurobiology Consultant & Translational Neuroscientist

"Understand your brain, behaviour and communication with neuroscience"
~ Charlotte Moore

✅️ Please feel free to contact me via private message, whatsapp, phone call, or email to ask any questions or discuss how I can help you.

🌐 𝐰𝐰𝐰.𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦.𝐚𝐮
📧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐞@𝐧𝐞𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.𝐜𝐨𝐦
📞 𝟎𝟒𝟎𝟕𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟓𝟎𝟒