John Gora

Sometimes you realise you love them after that heated conversation and you're not in jail

Not everyone who invites you to a drink is drinking for happiness

Keep chasing butterflies they'll keep running away but when you build and water a garden butterflies become your visitors every day

Client: Coach I wanted a loyal hard-working man and surely I got one but now my problem is he is always busy and poor in communication, like I force him to stay on calls or chats huh!!

Answer: You wanted a hardworking and loyal man. God granted your wishes. But you are used to lazy men. Those who spend all their time flirting with every beautiful face they see on their timeline.

Now, you complain that the faithful man is poor in communication. So you feel like going back to chat and call the lazy men again!

You have dated and consumed falsehoods about what it means to communicate. All you know about communication is spending time on a mobile phone.

When real communication is all about putting things together, learning what you get out of him and what you don't get, and thanking God for him being loyal and hardworking even if he is busy and not always available on the phone!

You can never get everything you want from a man or a woman. But you can get the most important things from them. Mobile phone calls and texts alone are not the communication you need from them.

Communication also includes their discipline, their character around you and away from you! Their relationship with your family, friends, and extended family.

Their love for you and assurance of it! That little time they get for you should be enough. You can't be hard working and still find a way to stay on the phone all the time or every moment you are wanted

You are a poor communicator because you can't learn how to deal with a busy hardworking loyal man.

Now do you want to cheat because according to you, he is a poor communicator? Don't lose a good partner because of the evil man-made gadget called a mobile phone.

So many men and women regret having wasted opportunities to settle down with a great man/woman just because they did not know what communication is all about!
Your coach ~ John Gora

Client: Coach, I don't understand my woman. She is too demanding, and I feel like I can't keep up! Today she wants this tomorrow she wants that!

Answer: Listen, brother. Women are never overdemanding; they are emotional expectants. What you show them is what they will ask for. If you can't keep up, never show it.

If you can keep up with it now hold on and figure out her reaction when you can't keep up. Because at some point in life, you will lack no matter what!

No man born of a woman has ever pleased a woman. Finding the right woman is the best thing but keeping her depends on her choice.

She will demand according to how well she knows you. Whether she gets it or not won't stop her from respecting you. Her choices will!

Always remember that most women reason emotionally, and very few mature and intentional women accompany their emotions with logic!

Today you can buy her all luxury car brands but the moment her friends or someone tell her the oldest Volkswagen is what is trendy and you fail to buy the same at her request. You lost her!

As a man don't and never try to impress your woman, be responsible for her. If she can't keep up with what she feels she wants and is not a need trying to pull it for her to keep her happy will automatically backfire

When she is at your home make sure she's fed, clothed, and given space to be herself. Most of our sisters don't know what they want just like most men. When in a relationship the best thing you can offer is an observant mindset

Never try to change anyone, as long as your boundaries are not crossed accept the things you can tolerate and stay happy

You can never please anyone. But no woman or man overdemands. They either treat you with emotions or logic in reaction to the space and freedom you have offered!

Your coach ~John Gora