After having a baby, your breathing changes.
Youâre hunched over feeding.
Youâre compressed while carrying car seats.
You might be tired and stressed.
Your ribcage has shifted in pregnancy to accommodate a growing baby.
Your shoulders round and without realising it, your breathing pattern shifts into survival mode.
Most of the time, youâre breathing into only one direction-maybe itâs your belly, maybe your chest, maybe nowhere near your pelvic floor at all.
But your pelvic floor is directly connected to how you breathe. When your breathing is shallow or one-directional, your pelvic floor canât respond the way we want it to. Itâs like trying to function with only part of your system switched on.
Breathing 360 degrees can really help. It means learning to breath into your belly, your chest, your back, and your pelvic floor, changing where we send our pressure.
When you can breathe this way, your pelvic floor can respond, your core works better and you feel stronger.
If youâre interested in learning more about how breathing can transform your postpartum recovery and support your pelvic health, send me a DM.
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16/06/2026
Women get cleared at 6 weeks and then theyâre basically on their own.
No one explains what that clearance actually means and no one gives them a progression plan.
No one says âhereâs how you safely build back to doing the movements you used to be able to.â Theyâre left guessing and stuck between doing too much and doing too little.
That lack of guidance from doctors costs months of anxiety and holding back just in the fear of not wanting to be in pain, or make things worse.
Clearance at 6 weeks doesnât equal readiness and readiness isnât one-size-fits-all, it looks so different to each woman. Walking might be your safe space at week 6, but lifting light weights might be the right step for another woman.
Safe progression means understanding where you actually are (not where your doctor says you should be, or what someone says on the internet).
When you have a real progression plan that is tailored to your body, your c-section experience, your symptoms and lifestyle everything changes. The anxiety lifts, the confidence builds. You get back to moving, playing, lifting freely. You get your body back.
Thatâs what I want for you.
DM me if youâre ready to rebuild without fear đ
11/06/2026
I absolutely love getting messages about Real Strong Women merch. But my favourite? The ones asking for more socks. More colours. More options.
And if you havenât guessed yet, Iâm genuinely obsessed with doing more colours đ Itâs my favourite part of creating merch, figuring out which shades actually work, which ones women will actually want to live in.
So you asked. I listened.
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My childbirth experience was nothing like I expected. It was traumatic. Delivering my daughter came with an obstetric a**l sphincter injury that meant emergency surgery straight after giving birth.
As a new mum whoâd just been through that, I was confused. Lost. I didnât know what was happening in my body. I thought the doctors would have a plan. I thought the physios would follow up. I thought thereâd be support to help me heal.
There wasnât.
I still wonder to this day how different my healing journey could have been if that support existed. If someone had explained what happened. If someone had offered proper physiotherapy. If someone had just been there.
Because being a new mum is hard enough. Adding a traumatic birth injury on top of that, itâs a whole different level of hard.
If youâve been through something similar, if your birth was traumatic, if you have an injury youâre still healing from and you donât know where to start or how to move forward, youâre not alone.
And my inbox is always open.
Message me. Tell me your story. Letâs talk about what support could actually look like for you. Because every woman deserves better than what I got.
Every woman deserves proper follow-up. Every woman deserves to feel understood and supported through her healing.
Youâre stronger than you think. And you deserve proper help đ
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09/06/2026
I get messages from women who feel completely lost after having a C-section.
Their doctor focuses on the visible scar; does it look infected, is it healing properly, and then say âyouâre cleared at xx weeks.â (the No. seems to vary on postcode!) But nothing is explained about whatâs going on inside of your body.
You go home, moving slowly because it doesnât feel right. By week 6 you try to lift the pram and suddenly feeling terrified. The fear comes because nobody explained what was actually happening beneath the surface.
The organs settling, the muscle layers trying to knit back together, the scar tissue forming internally. Itâs a lot.
Then comes the real confusion when the doctor says exercise is fine. But thereâs a huge difference between a gentle walk and lifting something heavy and nobody explains that.
So women are stuck, feeling too scared to move much, too worried about seizing up if they do nothing. Unsure of whatâs actually safe.
And you deserve to understand your internal healing and you deserve a real progression plan.
You deserve to rebuild confidence in your body, not just your strength.
Let me know in the comments if youâd love to learn more about safe progression to core strengthening and returning to heavy lifting after c-section đ
04/06/2026
Thereâs no such thing as one perfect hinge.
Too often weâre taught thereâs one ârightâ way to move. Do it this way or youâre doing it wrong. But in reality, movement is far more individual than that.
Your best hinge depends on your body, your goals, your injury history, how you manage pressure, your pelvic floor symptoms and what youâre trying to achieve right now.
Hereâs the thing: a woman recovering from birth, someone managing prolapse symptoms, a CrossFitter chasing performance and a woman returning from injury may all hinge slightly differently.
Same movement pattern. Different demands. Different benefits. And thatâs completely okay.
Good coaching isnât about making everybody move the same way. Itâs about finding the version that works for YOUR body. Right now. At this stage. With your specific needs.
So which hinge is yours? Watch the five versions in this carousel and find the one that feels strong for your body.
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02/06/2026
âI wee when I run.â
I hear this from so many women.
What I notice isnât embarrassment or shame. Itâs how much you miss running without having to think about your bladder. How much you miss feeling free in your body.
Because for many women, running isnât just exercise. Itâs headspace. Stress relief. Time for you.
Leaking when you run is common, but it isnât something you have to just put up with.
Your pelvic floor isnât broken. More often than not, it just needs help learning how to manage the pressure that running creates.
With the right approach, most women see significant improvements within 6-8 weeks.
You deserve to run, jump, laugh and move without worrying where the nearest toilet is -You deserve to move freely again đ
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01/06/2026
8.6 million women die from heart disease around the world annually, thatâs more than all cancers combined. And weâre not talking about it with urgency.
Womenâs heart disease gets misdiagnosed all the time. Itâs fatigue. Jaw pain. Nausea. Shortness of breath. So we go to the doctor, get sent home, and told itâs stress. By the time anyone connects the dots, itâs too late.
Weâre being missed because the system wasnât built for our symptoms.
Resistance training - lifting, building strength, has been proven to significantly reduces cardiovascular disease risk in women. More than cardio alone. When you lift you strengthen your heart muscle, improve blood pressure, reduce inflammation and youâre building protection from the inside out.
This is about building a body thatâs resilient and protected for the decades ahead.
If youâre ready to build that strength, letâs talk. Free discovery call to explore how lifting protects your heart and your future.
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28/05/2026
Spring essentials for UK & Irish weather. Also known as still bloody freezing with occasional false hope.
Sunglasses for the 23 minutes of sun we get in April. Umbrella for the other 23 hours 37 minutes. And a Real Strong Women sweatshirt for literally every single moment in between because letâs be honest calling it spring is GENEROUS.
This sweatshirt was made for this, itâs light enough that you wonât overheat during the 20 minutes it decides to be nice and cosy enough for the reality of spring!
Premium 400 GSM fleece. 80% cotton 20% recycled polyester.
Available in Black or pine green sizes S to XL.
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Almost a decade as a pelvic floor and movement coach and my goal has remained the same. To educate empower and help women feel stronger.
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