Maureen kwemboi

Don’t always think a woman will leave you because you don’t have money.
A REASONABLE WOMAN won't leave you because you don't have money. A woman will actually leave you:

1) When you refuse to change your ways or character!
2) When you don’t have time for her!
3) When you make your being so difficult for her to understand you!
4) When you don’t want to communicate with her!
5) When you don’t trust her!
6) When you don’t care about how she feels!
7) When you try to throw things back in her face from her past!
😎 When you suspect her to stay when you keep lying, not treating her right and not being loyal!
9)When you confide in other people more than her!
10) When you’re not proud of her, and belittle her accomplishmen

MEN IF YOU HAVE A HUSTLING WOMAN, PLEASE YOU ARE WINNING,KEEP HER.OUT HERE GIRLS ARE PRETTY,BROKE,LAZY AND BEGGING WITH HIGH STANDARDS AND EXPENSIVE TASTE

THE MISTAKES OF YOUR PARENTS.

There are mistakes your parents made which you must avoid. Many people are just victims of the ignorance of their parents.

1. Multiple child births: They have children they can't raise. They have children which they no means of training and raising them. Haven't observed that it's only the first child they were able to raise and train. They have 7 children and only two get proper education.

2. They want to choose who to marry for you: This is another mistake. No parent has the power to choose a marriage partner for the child. Your parents insisting that you must only marry who they want are making mistake.

3. They don't have plans for you: Since you graduated from school and they stopped paying school fees, what has changed in your life? It's because of lack of plan for you that's making them insist that you must marry a rich mam. Do you know how your parents see you? They see you as their investment. Where is the plan?

4. Your parents failed to show you successful marriage: They didn't manage and handle their marriage well. You grew up seeing them fighting and quarrelling. They only made you see marriage as a scary and confusing adventure.

BEWARE OF THAT CASUAL CHAT WITH THE OPPOSITE S*X AS A MARRIED PERSON

As a married person, beware of those casual talks with opposite s*x who is not your spouse you engage in. As you innocently chat & jest with this person frequently, you will be forming oxytocin hormones that will bind you together with that person. Oxytocin is a love hormones, produced in the brain. It then runs through the veins to the heart to give you a strong love feeling with that person. That is the moment you feel that you have bonded with that person. Therefore, as you keep chatting often with this person of the opposite s*x, both of you will be forming oxytocin that will emotionally bond & bind you together with that person. You will feel an urge of being with that person of the opposite s*x who is not your spouse. When you return back to your spouse you will be deficient of oxytocin to bond & bind you together with your spouse. Besides, you will already have been emotionally bonded & bound to that person. When you find out that you are warning up to someone else, than your spouse, know that you have become emotionally one with that person, since oxytocin is binding you together. That will become a crack in your marriage. Save your marriage before it collapses by guarding your heart from unwanted persons.

WISDOM FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED

1. Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED with someone who shares a BED with someone else when you are not around...!

2. Cheating does not mean you have to kiss, meet or have s*x with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so
that your partner will not see them, you are already there.

3. If a man is crazy about you, pray he does not get well, if he is getting well, know that another woman is giving him some tablets. 😄

4. First love may not die, but true love can bury it.

5. If you still believe "LOVE IS BLIND" then I know for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU. 😭

6. A woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt; A woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover; A woman's beautiful character attracts a real man.

7. Never you fall in love because you are lonely, fall in love because you are ready.

8. A blessed water is better than a cursed fried rice. A Godly poor man is far much better than an angry rich man in marriage.

9. I will rather have you stay in your father's house that you are sure of than pack into a man's house you are not sure of.

10. Most men base their capacity of manhood and their abilities to fertilize ovaries and produce children. Any man can impregnate a
woman. The real deal is HOW MANY MEN CAN BE THE FATHER TO THEIR CHILDREN, not promoters of ABORTION?

11. HOLY Wives do not just speak in tongues they MANAGE their homes, make SUPER meals, raise GODLY kids, and finally, they
bring out the KING in their man.

12. When you tend to your garden diligently you will be the one to reap the fruit of the vine hereof.

13. You can say "sorry" a million times, say " I love you" as much as you want, say whatever you want, but if you are not going to prove that,the things you say are true, then do not say anything at all. Because if you cannot show it, your words do not mean a thing.

14. Never you lie in order to satisfy somebody for a moment because the pain that you cause them in the future can last them for a lifetime.

Dear Brother

5 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN WIFE MATERIAL & GIRLFRIEND

1) GIRLFRIEND IS A SPENDER

When you're dating a girlfriend, your expenses will triple. You'll be spending as if you're paying tax to federal government on the relationship.

Take a girlfriend to a fast food restaurant, she places her orders without caring about the price and your salary, and she NEVER tries to split the bill at any time.

WIFE IS CONSERVATIVE

When you're dating a wife material, take her to a fast food restaurant, she'll ask how much for an item before she orders it, and she'll even refuse to pick an item with an exorbitant price, unless you insist.

She tries to save you Money.

She considers your pocket.

2) GIRLFRIEND BELONGS TO EVERYBODY

Girlfriend is always receiving calls 24/7 (even in your presence) as if she's a customer care agent.

Girlfriend is always coming down from different cars,

She's always flirting, collecting gifts and cash from different suitors without shame. She even demands it from them if they don't give her. She'll make trouble if you confront her.

Check her phone at your peril, she'll tell you "there's nothing going on" but her chats/friendship with other guys is too close for comfort.

WIFE BELONGS TO ONE MAN

A Wife is not available for every Man.

She's a One Man's Lady, she rebuffs suitors and their gifts.

3) GIRLFRIEND ONLY COLLECTS

A Girlfriend is like a Tax Collector.

On HER birthday, you'll take her out.
On YOUR birthday you'll still take her out.
Christmas that is JESUS'S birthday, she'll still collect gift from you.

Valentine, Easter, New Year, every season is an opportunity to collect gift/money from you, but she doesn't reciprocate.

WIFE COLLECTS AND GIVES

A Wife material will plan a surprise birthday for you on your birthday, no matter how small.

She doesn't just receive, she gives.

4) GIRLFRIEND IS REBELLIOUS

A girlfriend gives Headache

She uses equal rights and feminism spirit to deal with you, before you say one, she's said twenty.

She seeks to control her Man without submitting to him.
Her word is Final in the Relationship.

WIFE IS SUBMISSIVE

A Wife is a Team Player
She's not scared of submitting, and gives you your place as Head as you give her her place as your Partner.

Girlfriend is Beauty only.
Wife Material is Beauty and Character.

5) GIRLFRIEND DOESN'T LOVE YOU

Girlfriend is with you because of your Money, not because of You. Who you epp?
Stop meeting her needs and she's dumped you

A girlfriend loves your Money

WIFE LOVES YOU

A Wife material can stand by a Man when he's nothing and build with him.

A Wife stands by you even when you yourself see nothing worthy of such devotion to you.

A Wife Loves you.
A Wife Adores you.
Dear Man.
If you marry a girlfriend instead of a wife because of shape, waist or s*x, it will be a hell

𝐓𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐊𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐡𝐞𝐜𝐤
𝟏. 𝐕𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟: Treat yourself with kindness and respect. Avoid self-criticism. Make time for your hobbies and favourite projects, and broaden your horizons.

𝟐. 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲: Eat nutritious meals, drink plenty of water, Exercise- which helps decrease depression and anxiety and improve moods and get enough sleep.

𝟑. 𝐒𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞: People with strong family or social connections are generally healthier than those who lack a support network.

𝟒. 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬: Stress is a part of life. Always practice good coping skills like: Take a nature walk, try journal writing as a stress reducer. Also, remember to smile and see the humour in life. Research shows that laughter can boost your immune system, ease pain, relax your body and reduce stress.

𝟓. 𝐐𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝: Try meditating, Mindfulness and/or prayer. Relaxation exercises and meditation can improve your state of mind and outlook on life. In fact, research shows that meditation may help you feel calm and enhance the effects of therapy.

𝟔. 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐮𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐲: Although our routines make us more efficient and enhance our feelings of security and safety, a little change of pace can perk up a tedious schedule.

𝟕. 𝐒𝐞𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐠𝐨𝐚𝐥𝐬: Decide what you want to achieve academically, professionally and personally, and write down the steps you need to realize your goals. Aim high, but be realistic and don't over-schedule. You'll enjoy a tremendous sense of accomplishment and self-worth as you progress toward your goal.

𝟖. 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟: Volunteer your time and energy to help someone else. You'll feel good about doing something tangible to help someone in need, and it's a great way to meet new people.

𝟗. 𝐀𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐡𝐨𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐬: Sometimes people use alcohol and other drugs to "self-medicate" but in reality, alcohol and other drugs only aggravate problems.

𝟏𝟎. 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐭: Seeking help is a sign of strength, not a weakness. It is important to remember that treatment is effective. People who get appropriate care can recover from mental illness and addiction and lead full, rewarding lives.

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐀𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫!

HOW TO SELECT YOUR BABY'S S*X.

S***m cells are either X or Y. The Egg cell is always X. If X-S***m cell meets the egg(X) the baby will be a Girl (XX). If Y-S***m cell meets the egg(X), the baby will be a Boy (XY). The Y-S***m cells move fast but die fast (its lifespan is about 24hrs). X-S***m cells move slowly but survive longer (up to 3-4days).

Therefore, if you have in*******se some days before ovulation, most of the Y-S***m cells would have died leaving mostly X-S***m cells to fertilized the egg

Here's a simple way to calculate your ovulation period.

1. From the first day you see the blood of your period.
2. Pick up a calendar and count 15 days including the first day of the blood stain.
3. Mark the 15th day with a pen.
4. Mark 3 days before the 15th day, and mark 3 days after the 15th day.
6. You will notice you have 7 days marked.
These 7 days are your ovulation/fertile days also known as unsafe period.
That is if you have s*x on any of these days, then you have 98% chances of being pregnant.
7. Do this every month diligently
For Example
1. If your period is 11th July, ,
2. 15 days after the first day of the blood stain will be on 25th of this July too (2weeks after) counting from 11th.
3. 15th day is on the 25th July
4. 3days before the 15th day is 22, 23, 24.
5. 3days after 25th July is 26,27,28.
6. 22-28th July (7days) is when you are ovulating. It is your fertile period.
**Don't forget that the 4 days is a reminder that s***m stays in the female body for about 4 days. Any s*xual contact in between ovulation period will form something ...
If you want a baby girl, have
s*x between 3 days before ovulation (22- 24th)
Female s***m swim slowly but can stay inside woman body for days without dying off,

For a baby boy on the main ovulation day and 3 days after 25th.(26,27,28)
Male s***m swim very fast but will get weak and die off if no egg found for a while leaving female s***m to finish the job .
..........
MAJOR SIGNS THAT YOUR OVULATION HAS BEGAN...

You don't need a doctor, just relax. After 2 weeks you may feel the following:
1. Headache.
2. High body temperature.
3. Dizziness (feeling of tiredness and sleepiness).
4. Breast tenderness/ size increases just like when you are menstruating.
5. Increased s*x drive.
6. Light cramps or pain on one side of the pelvis.
7. Abdominal bloating.
8. Heightened sense of smell, taste or vision (you eat more).
9. Va**na mucus becomes slippery (if you notice, put it in between fingers...it stretches like thick catarrh or snail mucus...colorless like egg white.
..........
N/B: The instance here is for ladies with 30 days cycle. And someone who saw her period in July . If yours is 28, then it's 14 days and not 15 days.

DEAR BROTHER,

Never set a STANDARD in Courtship that you know you can't SUSTAIN in Marriage just to impress or influence a Lady to date/marry you.

Don't borrow Money you don't have just to spend and impress a Lady, she'll think you have plenty of it, whereas YOU DON'T

You'll be under pressure to keep borrowing to live up to the image you've created, thus sinking you further down financially.

A lady that your current Reality and your future Prospects can not impress is not for You.

You told her you work in the Oil and Gas industry, whereas it's Palm Oil and Gas Cylinders you sell in Mile 3 Market

You're a Dry Cleaner and you're good at what you do, but you now tell a lady you're a Medical Doctor so she can give you her number,. Well done Mr Lion, please Lie On.

PROPOSAL that you make to a lady with Lies is an application for DISASTER. You're creating a STANDARD that you aren't capable of STANDING AT.

You're borrowing just to form Big Boy for her, whereas the only thing big about you is your Nose.

70 Years old Man.

Are you squatting with a friend? TELL HER!

We you still looking for a Job? TELL HER!
Do you know if she's a HR of a company, and that through her you'll get a job, but you've now told you have a Job.

The Level you put yourself in today (Spiritually, Financially etc) will determine the level of Expectation a lady will have from you tomorrow. Be Real.

Don't win a girl's Heart with Lies.

The Truth will take her from You.

I come in Peace ✌️ .

(c)

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE❗❗❗

Secret 1
Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7
God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8
Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9
Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10
Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

⚠️ In marriage we are daily called to be a living sacrifice