The light

FALALAR AUREN BUDURWA !

Manzon ALLAH (saw) Yace':
"Ku auri budurwaye, don sun fi dadin baki (wajen magana mai kyau ko sumbata), kuma sun fi jefo ƴaƴa (yawan haifuwa), kuma sun fi yarda da abu kadan (imma a saduwa ko a abin Duniya)".
Saheehul Jamee'ee 2939

Daga jabir (RA) Yace': Na auri wata mace sai Manzon ALLAH (saw) yace dani, shin kayi aure? Sai nace eh..... Budurwa ko bazawara? Sai nace': Bazawara. Sai yace dani shin meyasa Baka auri budurwa ba, kayi mata wasa itama tayi maka wasa.
Muslim

Manzon ALLAH (saw) Yace'; Kada a ɗaura auren bazawara har sai an nemi yardar ta, kuma kada a aurar da budurwa har sai an nemi izinin ta, sai aka tambayi Manzon ALLAH (saw) menene izinin na ta yace. Izinin ta in tayi shiru. Muslim

Daga Anas (RA) Yace': Yana daga cikin Sunnah, idan namiji ya auri budurwa ya kwana a dakin ta kwana bakwai sa'annan ya raba musu kwanaki, in kuwa ya auri bazawara zai kwana a dakin ta kwana uku, sa'annan ya raba musu kwanaki. Bukhari da Muslim

Ummus salma (RA) tace': A lokacin da manzon ALLAH (saw) ya aure ta ya kwana adakin ta kwana uku.

A budurwan manzo (saw) yayi maka zaɓi, ya zaɓar maka mai addini.

Kuma Babu wanda zai zaɓi mace maabociyar addini face wanda daman zuciyar sa, yana rataye da addini.

Manzon ALLAH (SAW) Yace';
ana auren mace domin abu huɗu:- dukiyar ta, dangin ta, kyawun ta, da kuma addinin ta ka zaɓi maabociyar addini, hannun ka zayyi albarka.
Saheehut targeeb 1920

Manzon ALLAH (SAW) Yace'; Duniya kayan jindaɗi, amma mafi alkhairi kayan jindaɗin duniya, mace ta gari.
Saheehut targeeb 1912

The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) said that Shaytaan sits on his throne daily and dispatches his agents to work among human beings. One of the agents returns and says that I made a certain person commit a sin, another says I got so and so involved in this offence. Upon listening to all this, Shaytaan says that you have done nothing great. Eventually, one representative comes and says that I saw a husband and wife extremely devoted to each other. I sowed the seeds of enmity between them. On hearing this, Shaytaan becomes happy and embracing his agent says that you have indeed achieved something great. [Mishkat]

The love between a husband and wife is the biggest blow to Shaytaan. From this it is apparent how meritorious this love is. The Islamic prescription for success in married life is based on taqwa, fear, love, and consciousness of Allah. Taqwa — the basis for all aspects of Islamic life — is especially relevant to the household. That is why Sura Nisa, which contains many commands regarding the rights and responsibilities of spouses, begins with repeated reminders of taqwa.

To fight Shaytaan, one needs Allah’s help and it comes with , i.e. living with the awareness that Allah is watching us and will hold us accountable for our actions. A direct and far reaching consequence of this awareness is that a fight for rights is replaced by a concern for responsibilities. One’s responsibilities are other’s rights. A Muslim husband and wife will be concerned with discharging their duties toward each other. This provides for a home that is a model of peace, love and harmony.

Iblees has five sons, he has appointed each of them on one of his affairs, their names are:

• Thabr,
• al-A'war,
• Musawwaṭ,
• Dāsim,
• Zulunbūr.

• As for Thabr: He is respon­sible for calamities. He orders people to rip their clothes, slap their cheeks and make the call of ignorance when stricken by calamity

• al-A'war: He is responsible for fornication (Zinā). He beauti­fies it and orders others to commit it

• Musawwaṭ: He is responsible for lies. He hears the news and transfers it to someone else, who in turn, goes to a gathering of people and tells them

• Dāsim: He shows a wife’s faults to her husband and makes him angry with her

• Zulunbūr: He is responsible for the market place. He sticks his flag (Fitnah) therein.

[Makaaid ash Shaytaan by Ibn Abi ad Dunya (54/35)]

If you truly love someone, ask for good for them in this life and the hereafter.

Your mother, your mother, your mother! Honour her and find Paradise beneath her feet.