LoloB

Stay safe!

I saw this notification on my dashboard.
Please, what does it mean?

It's few days to my birthday ooo

7th is the code

Gifts and surprises make me glow better 😂

Love 😘💕

Not all who applauds you genuinely wishes you well.

Some persons come closer to you to know more about you and when they get the information they so desire to have, they'll leave you and someday use that inst you.

Be wise as the $erpeñt and gentle as the dove.

Happy Sunday to you fam!

Let's grow together!

May God come through for those children the band*!ts kidnapped.

What a wuked world!

BREAST! BREAST! BREAST!

Ladies your breasts are not just for beauty...
They are life.
That cream you're rubbing to make them stand...
That body mist you're spraying to smell expensive...
That skin-lightening soap you're using to look fair...
Some of them are SILENT KILLERS.
Doctors are crying out that breast cancer cases are rising because of toxic chemicals in fake creams,powders and sprays. They seep into your skin,poison your breast tissue and destroy the same breast your future baby will depend on.
A contaminated breast is equal to contaminated breast milk.
A damaged breast is equal to a baby denied food.
A cancerous breast will end up being cut off.
YOUR BREAST ARE GIFT FROM GOD.
They feed nations and carry destiny.
DON'T POISON YOURSELF.

CHIKE! CHIKE! CHIKE!

Yes i don't talk about trends on social media rather i talk and teach more about important and improving education but this is a medium to also enlighten us about Eastern part of Nigeria where I come from. Waitin Chike do fit make man kpai man and waitin the woman do dey end marriage.

From my own observations, men these days are becoming less masculine for different reasons that do not really hold water. We know that they are copying these things from western society but I do not think that it is something we should embrace. In Africa, adultry in women is a very serious issue but now some men are watering it down. They will tell you they are forgiving their adulterous wives because of the children, I really do not understand, Sometimes when a woman is adulterous, it is something that she will keep doing invariably which will eventually lead to the end of the marriage, if not today, tomorrow. So my question is why struggle to save what must die? In our culture (Igbo) if your wife cheats on you, you do not keep it to yourself. You are supposed to report it to your family and hers immediately so that certain rituals be performed, that's if you still want to keep her. Failure to do so, the ancestors/Ala will come after you (that’s the believe).

Now from my personal observations, I have never seen a woman who was held back traditionally via nemesis of adulterous act she carried out rather it's always on man. So my gender make una no go dey use malice as an excuse to cheat and men make una try understand say nothing consence una with keeping malice. So, I do not subscribe to forgiving a cheating wife as my reasons are simple. I can't cheat and won't be happy to see my brothers' wivies cheating too.

What do you think?

PARENTING AND SOCIETAL PRESSURE

In our time, we grew into adulthood but currently these guys jump into adulthood. I understand that there is a generational shift but in your opinion do you think it is better this way? Growth use to be in stages but now people just spring up from no where. An average 23 to 25 years old has almost seen it all. Then they become quickly exhausted and bored, they have already done everything. And I think that because they jump up, they lack the opportunity of learning different lessons positioned at different stages of life, this is for both males and females. A 20 years old girl is already fed up with men, all men are scum to her, yes she has tasted a lot. Is this a good trajectory for societal positioning or it really do not matter?

Age is surely not the problem..
The problems are the ill means of getting wealth and normalising social decadence..
For example many 23 years old are already on mortgage (own a house) in UK and many EU country...
Legitimate workers drive good cars,a 21 year old could qualify for car finance..
For relationship, UK for instance people marry very early, people date in these countries of the world not hook up..
People go into relationships in Nigeria for the wrong reasons which should call for a U-turn.

FINANCIAL FREEDOM HAVE BECOME A MIRAGE FOR THE AVERAGE CITIZEN. WHY?

These are policies and economic changes that make it increasingly difficult for the average person to break free financially in our country — not because people are lazy, but because the system keeps tightening.
• Fuel subsidy removal → transport, food, rent, and daily survival costs exploded overnight.
• Naira floating & devaluation → your income lost value, prices didn’t wait.
• High electricity tariffs → pay more, get less, still buy fuel.
• Rising food prices → inflation turned basic meals into luxury items.
• Expensive education → schools raised fees, dreams got postponed.
• Costly healthcare → being sick now equals being broke.
• Higher data & telecom costs → even access to opportunity costs more.
• Weak social safety nets → reforms came first, protection didn’t.
📌 When policies remove buffers without strong support systems, financial freedom becomes a privilege — not a goal.
This is not noise.
This is economics meeting everyday life.