She is NOT Special

Modern parents want to be friends with their children in the same way modern men want to be friends with their women.

Unfortunately, familiarity breeds a certain comfort, and that comfort breeds a disrespect that crosses the line all too often.

Draw your own conclusions.

She is ❌ Not Special

The most common mistake men make around women:

Guys become desperate to get the girl, and try to compliment her on every small thing in order to get her attention.

what they are effectively saying is “look, I told you nice things, I complemented you, i’m nice, you have to give me attention” or he tries to be that “as***le” without being calibrated.

listen man, even mediocre girls have needy guys in her DMs and in real life trying to get in her pants (95% guys have ZERO standards) so if you think that a hot girl is going to give you her attention because you were nice or an as***le? You’re playing a fool’s game.

The hotter a woman is, the more she craves AUTHENTICITY.

What does she face all day? People kissing ass and being fake just so they can get inside her pants. That is why she S**t Tests guys.

When she meets a guy who isn’t afraid to call her out on her bu****it, to convey that she isn’t up to his standards, is unapologetic, and even call her nicknames like *University*, *Country/City* or Dork, Du***ss, Dog, What do you think happens to her?

She feels ATTRACTION towards that guy.

Because he is being REAL with her, and is free-flowing in his interactions.

He isn’t trying to impress her or get something from her. Instead he is putting her down and making her qualify herself.

When you are congruent, without Filters, She can finally Relax and let down her defenses. She can Trust you.

Unfortunately, 99% of guys are Boring, Have Zero Value, and No Game. This is why their authentic self is UNATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN.

Learn Game.

If a man wants to make a woman feel guilty, he has to get angry with her whilst expressing how she displeased him, and if a woman wants to make a man feel guilty, she has to play cute and self-victimise.

Angry women can’t guilt men, and self-victimising men can’t guilt women.

A woman telling a man off like he’d tell her off doesn’t work on him in much the way a man playing cute like a woman does doesn’t work on her.

Of course if a woman doesn’t respect a man, then she won’t respect his anger.

And if a man doesn’t care for a woman, he won’t care if she’s hurt.

That Ahaa at the end

Something changed inside me when I learned this mind blowing statistic:

During times of war, there have been lesser su***des than in times of peace.

The above fact should teach you a f**k ton about human psychology and behavior.

We are beings driven by purpose.

WE NEED SOMETHING TO FIGHT FOR.

During times of war, when there has been deaths and destruction, you’d think people would want to “off” themselves, but there have been paradoxically less su***des.

Why?

Because it brought everyone together. It brought families together who struggled and fought together for their survival. Men and women were no longer enemies.

It gave the entire country or community something to LIVE FOR.

In these modern times, most guys don’t have anything to LIVE FOR. to SUFFER FOR.

And hence, su***de rates have been up since the past few years.

When you don’t have something to fight for, the brain comes up with its own enemies, and in many cases, that enemy becomes YOU.

You start doing self harm, create a poor self image, and inevitably fall into suicidal tendencies.

This is why I tell men, find your WHY. Find your purpose.

Just start exploring s**t and put yourself in extreme situations.

It’s only a matter of time before your purpose will reveal itself.

A man with a strong why can overcome any how - Victor Frankl

What women are attracted by in a man is so different from everything you’ve been told as a man from the day you were born.

You’re told to be chivalrous and nice to women,

And yet you’ve been seeing the hottest girls from back in school who got their skirts tailored extra short with the toxic, abusive guys who were bullies- even who bullied her. (Playfully, but not necessarily)

You’re told to get rich and the women will come,

And yet every rich guy you know is a slave to some girlfriend he’s had since he was in high school, can’t even meet his friends or chase new P, she would get too mad at him. In the news you hear about some rich guy getting divorced out of 50% of his life’s earning by some FAT FIVE.

You’re told to just be yourself and you’ll find your soulmate

And yet every girl you’ve been yourself with friendzoned you and made you her guy best friend who she discussed that toxic as***le with.

Everything you know about women is a lie.

This is why you need GAME to start exploiting the truth in your favor.