Real Talk program with your coach DB

The question is why people separate/Divorce after having children?

✍️ Some children study the parents, they look for loophole and use it to their benefit.

FOR example, some use emotional self pity blackmail, they start to Act, and play with triggering emotional feelings blackmail.

Thy start to divide the parents, soon put parents in a, state of choose me or your husband /wife and start to be out of control.

Then couple start to disconnect, in their disconnection he or she benefit and later there is nothing remaining....

Most couple divorce not because of children but because of children. Children are not the same in character.

Some control their parents, cornered him or Her, more especially there are men who are afraid to marry because thy have children that are controlling them and etc and every relationship thy try does not work because the other child always play an emotional game just to make the other feel guilty and etc.

As a, coach I have studied this in many ways, many families and in many one on one and I have realized Disfunctionality in families are started by kids and given to the weak parents and it becomes a pattern.

FOR example!

One parents correct or rebuke the kid, is, wrong, but to others same manner is right.

Other kids are rebuked but others are not rebuked, when rebuked is like mis ill treating him or Her, and that what's causes many separation and divorce because shows that kids comes first.

Mistake many couple don't know is that, kids Wil grow, thy will be married and marry and thy will leave them and thy Wil remain together but with broken pieces and no joy.

Many relationships where destroyed by children, many separation happened after one gives birth because the kid becomes first and that destroyed the bond, connection with their spouses!

Emotional blackmailing destryoeed many relationships and marriages.

Men normally don't talk, in most cases mothers treat children differently. Thy have favourate, and they can not hide it.

Is easy to separate /divorce after having kids based on bad parenting.

Part 2 loading ✍️ Bad parenting

‭Matthew 10:36 NIV‬
[36] a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’

A child just Come home with a phone, clothes and as a parent you dont even ask🤦.

What you can't manage you can't control, manage, displine and put to order.

It start as small and graduate and now the home can't be manageable. One rotten potato always affect all....

Marrying the wrong person does not ruin your life. What ruins you is spending your entire life paying the price for that mistake.